Did you spend the same amount of time thinking/reflecting on both? Or did you spend WAY more time ruminating over the insult and far less time truly allowing yourself to receive the compliment?
Take...
One...
More...
Moment....
To...
Think...
On...
This...
And if you're already here, amen sista' or brotha', my hat's off to you!
But if you're like me and many people I know, then start this practice of fully receiving the kindness of others and making unkindness insignificant. You'll be amazed at how this changes things. O.O